If there is more than one way to peel an orange, you can bet there is more than one way to bring a woman to orgasm.
I just didn’t know there was more than one way to achieve that most show-stopping of female orgasms… the squirt.
I’m not new to this phenomenon, but previous experiences had all involved fairly deep penetration or very fast fingers. But a recent encounter at a private sex party had me going like a sprinkler, and it involved the use of an entirely different technique.
And it had nothing to do with the size of my partner downstairs. With the technique he used, he could have had one the size of a thumb for all it mattered.
And it was probably hottest moment of my life.
This all went down about an hour south of Sydney at an event run by Bondi Play Parties.
Described as a space to ‘break free from societal expectations and their inhibitions’, I arrived at the private home more than ready to let go, and let the night carry me away.
This wasn’t my first sex party – far from it – so I was buzzing with excitement.

Sex writer Ebony Leigh (pictured) had a mind-blowing encounter recently that taught her a valuable lesson about size not being the be-all-and-end-all
I locked eyes with a hot guy the moment I walked through the door and after some brief flirting, we headed upstairs, with several other observers in tow.
Lying me down on the sheets, the man moved down my body, tugged off my bikini bottoms, and began to go down on me.
It felt amazing – but I wanted to show off! As a crowd started to gather, I hopped on top and rode him until I climaxed.
What happened next took me by complete surprise.
As I lay back on the bed in a sweaty, post-sex daze, the man leaned over and began to rub himself against me.
But this was no amateur dry-humping. Instead, he was holding himself in his hand and using the tip to firmly, expertly stroke my erogenous zones.
From this firm, precise pressure in all the right places, I start to feel pleasure building inside me.
Who knew a man could do so much with ‘just the tip’?

I didn’t even realise what was happening until the big finish (stock photo posed by models)
I closed my eyes and leaned into the experience, which felt so new and different. It didn’t hurt that we had an audience either.
My pleasure and excitement grew and then… suddenly, without warning, fireworks.
It took me a moment to realise what had happened.
Like I said before, this wasn’t my first rodeo. But how on Earth this man had managed it with the tip of his penis, without even an inch of penetration, I had no idea.
But I certainly wasn’t complaining. This was a revelation for me.
After losing my virginity to a well-endowed man, my standards have always been ‘big’ and, honestly, for years I’ve struggled to enjoy men who don’t measure up.
But my most recent encounter proves size isn’t everything – and a smaller one can be mind-blowing if the guy knows what to do with it.
Indeed, in this case of extraordinary surprise pleasure, size had absolutely no bearing at all.
In fact, it was utterly irrelevant, meaning this is a technique any guy can try if he wants to bring a woman to the ultimate pleasure destination. And why wouldn’t you?